Prayers To Computer Gods Often Go Unanswered
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Here is a story without an end yet. You can speculate on how it will turn out. A senior friend who lives about an hour’s drive away has a small business in his home, which requires a LAN with server and five work stations. He does not have a regular tech service provider and knows nothing himself about computers. I have helped him occasionally, but it is a wonder that he seldom has problems. When he does have a problem, he emails me (or calls, depending on how bad the problem is and whether his email is still working) to see if I can either solve it by telepathy or be wheedled into driving to his place. For personal reasons I do not attempt to access his system remotely.
Recently he called in a panic and said that he had turned off his server while away on vacation and when he tried to start it, nothing came up. The power strip was hot because he got a power light indicator from his monitor. I asked him if he got any action at all on the monitor. He said it was totally blank. I asked if he heard any noises from the computer. He heard nothing. He went on to say that he had unplugged and re-plugged in everything with no change. We confirmed that the power light was not illuminated in the front. Then it hit me. He had been messing around in the back. I asked him to check the power supply on/off switch. That involved me telling him where to find it, but it was in the "on" position and exercising it and trying in both positions made no difference.
I suggested he take it to a shop and ask them to check the power supply. He did. They replaced the power supply and had him look at it in their shop. I have no idea if they confirmed the supply was bad or if he just confidently said, "Here, change the power supply. It’s bad."
The computer came up. He was greatly relieved to see his stored data was still intact. (He has a different backup strategy than I recommend. His strategy seems to rely a lot on favorable response from a deity.). So everything looked good. By phone he thanked me for my brilliant remote diagnosis and went home to set it up again.
Nothing worked. He tried plugging into a different circuit and still nothing worked. He went back to the shop and with their mouse, keyboard and monitor, it worked. Rather than take a chance, he stayed around and had them burn backup discs of all his data (good idea). Then went home again where it still did not work.
His calls were getting frantic and it was obvious that he really wanted me to come up and make his problem go away. I tried to calm him and assure him that he was likely in good shape and that something stupid was happening. He had his backup and so the worst that could happen is that he needs a new server. That did not make him happy. He was convinced that his system had been compromised by a virus while he was gone and the power was off. This made sense to him because the computer was unattended in his absence and it never had a problem while he was there.
To keep him busy, I suggested he try to make the problem move. Exchange the server with a work station and see if the problem then appears on the work station while the server boots normally. He liked that idea. He will call me back in a while with the results.
You know as much now as I do. If he lived closer I would drive over just out of friendship, but this is a busy time for me. So here are two questions: (1) what do you think is going on, and (2) is he taking advantage of me or does this come under normal friendship duties?
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17 Comments
TGT
November 22nd, 2007
at 4:13am
1. Is there a fuse somewhere along the power lead to the power switch? If yes - check that fuse.
2. Neither. You can decide whether to get to his place or not.
Wylis
November 22nd, 2007
at 6:14am
Have him try using a different keyboard. I have seen a similar situation where a PC would not boot up. The owner took it back to the shop 3 or 4 times and they never found anything wrong with it. Turns out that something had happened to the keyboard and caused a short. It would prevent his PC from starting. A new keyboard solved the problem.
Jake
November 22nd, 2007
at 6:38am
(1) what do you think is going on
-Is he positive the power outlets are working to full potential. Not that they are just giving power. Some PSU will let the fan turn on and that is it if the power source is not up to snuff. Have him move it to a completely different room and plug it in.
-I do not see how the KVM (keyboard video mouse) could effect it from not even giving a code beep. However since at the computer shop he took it to the only difference is the power outlet, KVM. Have him try swiping the KVM from a workstation and plug it in. Again I fail to see how or why the KVM would cause it to not at least give post code, beep, or whatever you call them. However you know just as well as I do that computers repair makes no sense.
(2) is he taking advantage of me or does this come under normal friendship duties?
Yes it falls under normal friendship duties of being a friend. However only to a certin extent. Being a fellow geek I can say it will never stop. However this ‘free’ service only applies to friends NOT ‘acquaintances.’ Still there is a line. If it is constant I mean every week calls then give them a referal and just say NO. If they get mad and stop being your friend obviosly they where not a good friend. That or do what I do. John calls me and says he jake I need computer help my response Is I need a cheescake. Renee calls says jake I need computer help. My respnse is I need my lawn mowed. Etc. Barter.
Jeff Heyen
November 22nd, 2007
at 6:45am
Sherman,
“Another” story of us amateur techies supporting friends. If his box worked at the store, but not at home, is he connecting to some setup of power protection/correction, i.e. UPS or power strip? That’s the first place I’d look.
Your comments on back up really hit home, as I’ve finally issued an ultimatum to my “supported” friends. Either you invest in an external hard drive and Acronis TrueImage, or the best you’ll get from me when you call with a problem is, “too bad, so sad.” I just don’t have the time or the inclination these days to fix systems if the user isn’t willing to invest a few $$ to protect himself.
Regards,
Jeff Heyen
P.S. Your articles are the highlights of Windows Fanatics, for me.
Earl Taylor
November 22nd, 2007
at 6:58am
n this otherwise interesting article, you wrote this: Quote: ” He was greatly relieved to see his stored data was still intact. (He has a different backup strategy than I recommend. His strategy seems to rely a lot on favorable response from a deity.).”
Your reference alludes to God, the title says “Computer Gods” but yet you call Him a deity. Why not call Him as He is - God? Why is God referred to simply as a deity?
It seems to me that people are so hellbent on taking God out of everything these days, its like they are ashamed to say the name God. But instead simply say deity, or worse yet, Gods. Plural.
There are no, read plural, Gods. There is but one single God. The great “I am.”The Holy Trinity, the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit.
Paul "Tanks" James
November 22nd, 2007
at 11:36am
Sounds to me like the fuse in the power lead plug has blown, I bet the shop were using their own power lead too.
Robert Batton
November 22nd, 2007
at 11:59am
1. I think it is an AC power problem where your friend is plugged in…maybe
the secondary place he tried to plug into is also on the same AC circuit
as the first place. I’m willing to bet when he plugs into the same spot his
working workstation is plugged into the server will work.
2. I don’t think he is taking advantage of you….he trusts you and he is
becoming frantic and he considers you a knowledgeable source.
BK
November 22nd, 2007
at 12:45pm
Maybe he has a bad power cord at his house, but when he goes to the shop, they use their own power cord?
As to question 2: If this is really that important to him, he should pay someone to be available to solve these problems. In other words…yes, he is taking advantage of you.
Ken A.
November 22nd, 2007
at 1:29pm
Best bet is the power strip has both switched and unswitvhed and/or both protected and unprotected outlets. The monitor is plugged into an unprotected/unswitvhed outlet while the computer is plugged into an outlet that is either switched off or has an open breaker or burned out surge protection.
Or the line cord is bad. Or the wall outlet for the computer’s power strip is not the same as the one for the monitor or its power strip, and the wall outlet leading to the computer is not powered for some reason — e.g. blown fuse, wall switvh, etc.
As for part two, that really depends on the history of your relationship.
Oh, and while I’m still fuming about typing this comment twice, please suggest to Chris that the “Submit Comment” button needs to be relocated further down the page so that my deathless prose doesn’t go down a rat hole every time I forget to fill in the “Anti-Spam Word” which is not requested until after I get to the button and erase my whole comment.
Larry
November 22nd, 2007
at 4:48pm
check household power. Specifically, the receptacle(s) that power his stuff. Make sure that the neutral (white) is making a good connection. The red light on power strips are often just neon bulbs that detect power on the black lead only.. Make certain that the receptacle(s) can power, say, a curling iron or something that draws a couple of amps without arcing or sparking when the plug is wiggled. Use a tester that tests for all three contacts.
- Larry -
leftystrat
November 22nd, 2007
at 5:40pm
You seem to have made all the correct suggestions. Making the problem move is a very interesting way of saying it. I think you’ll find the problem presents itself more clearly when he gets back to you.
*** is he taking advantage of me or does this come under normal friendship duties?
Are these normal friendship duties for you and anyone else? Are they normal for you with this fellow? Do YOU think he’s taking advantage?
Personally I think that unless you’re closely related, this fellow needs an available (or onsite) tech, due to the amount of hardware he has. One computer would be one thing… a network is a horse of a different color.
If he doesn’t call a lot, consider it a good deed. If you’d rather not be bothered, draw a line in the sand. Maybe you could put together a troubleshooting chart for him (and others).
Good luck in any case.
Glenn
November 22nd, 2007
at 6:46pm
This really sounds like a power issue. You state he plugged it into another circuit (which I take to mean in a different part of the house). Is he plugging it directly into an outlet, or into a power strip? If the power strip is bad or its fuse burned out, he won’t get any power. Did he take the power strip to the PC shop?
Do other things (e.g. lamp) work in the outlet(s) he plugged into? It doesn’t sound like a circuit breaker problem because it would most likely affect more than just his server, but wiring in a socket can be wacky sometimes. Maybe it’s time to pray to the gods of electricity, or do what I did - hire an electrician to wire things the right way.
Cheers,
Glenn
eldergeek
November 23rd, 2007
at 1:06am
It’s tough when friends ask you to do things you normally expect to be paid for yet they don’t expect you to charge them. If I can “fix” the problem on the phone I don’t feel compromised, I’m just happy to have helped, but if I have to drive to their house I give them a choice: (a) I bring my wife, do what I can for them and they feed us a nice dinner. (b) I come by myself and they pay me at my regular hourly rate for the visit (but I usually give them a break on the time unless the visit kept me from other paid work).
I’m also up for barter arrangements if the friend in question is amenable. The main thing is; you have to assert yourself and make it clear when a friend is “crossing the line”. TANSTAAFL is the order of the day.
Ray
November 23rd, 2007
at 4:45am
In the shop the new power supply brought it up, ok, bad power supply.
I’ll admit to be computer technically illiterate. Could it be that before
the old power supply went, it toasted the mouse, keyboard and monitor
somehow or is there a relation to the cables, perhaps a loose plug on one
of those peripherals or something not making proper connection or good
ground?
On the other hand, it sounds like a task of calling a tech to the site and
have them troubleshooting by chasing down the things that work one
place and not the other. Yeah, I know, $igns, but which i$ more co$tly,
calling the tech or having a $erver and LAN which will not work and
keep the bu$ine$$ afloat?
bayoujim
November 24th, 2007
at 6:55am
Your friend may not be using you, some people are not that aware that some people make their living as a starving computer tech. If your friend does not have much money or is on social security don’t charge him.
1. Check all connections outside of box.
2. Check all connections inside of box.
3. Test power supply with power supply tester.
4. Start praying to whatever imaginary friend (God) you have.
Cliffystones
November 26th, 2007
at 5:25pm
Sherman,
Sounds like the story of my life. You have to decide for your self if this person is a true friend, or just calls when he needs something.
Not knowing your relationship, it’s a tough call. But I have been in your situation since I was being asked to fix (vacuum tube!) TV sets, 8-track players, etc. You know the old expressions “beer-buddies” and “fair weather friends”. Well those folks can and will come out of the woodwork, regardless of your expertise. Whoever said “barter” was right on track. And there’s always my favorite, a fifth of Single Malt Scotch” as payment!
The Dude
November 29th, 2007
at 1:37pm
Earl… please. Find a forum… pick your battles. This definitely is not the place.