The Pre-Christmas Date
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The goal is to have a date (for at least a movie) for my birthday, which is in December. Why? Just because it would be nice. Different too. Oddly enough December seems to be when most relationships end or change in a big way for me. I’d stop at saying it’s cursed but it has been a bit unlucky.
I try to meet men. Offline I find people don’t look up from their shoes very often. Online, men just don’t seem to want a real person versus a battery operated toy (or something). I just don’t know all that much about battery operated toys.
Anyway, if you see charming post from a BBW on Craigslist or MatchDoctor or that fish one, take a moment to reflect on the woman behind the post. Women are human too. Don’t ignore us just because it’s the easy way out or just because you’re really a stuck up snob. Be nice and send a reply back, even just a polite ‘No thank you”. I can’t speak for all women but I only bite upon request, formally and with nice penmanship. Spelling counts too.
Tags: birthday, date, dating, relationship
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Sean
November 24th, 2006
at 9:23pm
December is a tricky time to find a new significant other. As shallow as it might seem, a lot of people are thinking, “Man, I don’t know if I’ll even still be interested in this girl/guy, but I have to buy them Christmas presents. Maybe I should just wait till after the new year to find a girl/guy.”
Or else people decide to ditch their girlfriend/boyfriend around Christmas because they don’t it’s not going to last much longer, so why spend the money on presents.
Sad but true. Same thing happens around valentines day.
Laura
November 26th, 2006
at 12:20pm
I hadn’t thought of anything like that. On the bright side then, looking now will weed out people who think that way. A plus for me! I enjoy giving presents on Christmas, birthdays and so on. I don’t expect anything back though it’s nice when someone remembers.