When I look back over my life I see my decisions in a new light. If I had not Have been such a screw up I would have never Have known anything about myself. I would have probably been well off but only monetary. My life would have been really hypocritical, So much that I would be a super-jerk know it all thinking I knew it all and nobody could tell me a thing about life cause I made all the right choices in life (or thats what I would think anyway) cause I was never aware of messing up. The times in my life that I call mistakes are now referred to as experiences. They are no longer a bad memory just a instance that I now can relate to another person that without it I would never be able to really to understand people or human nature for that matter. So now that I have all these experiences and I mean a lot of them , I now can now relate to more people that I now realize. Bob gass says,”success in any field is always preceded by mistakes, discoveries, courage that turns obstacles into opportunities. When you accept that the future is yours. That has a big effect on me and I hope it could be for you too. Basically we have to taste pain of what’s wrong ,before we can appreciate the wisdom of what is right .Problems can result in one of two ways, a breakdown or a breakthrough, in which a break down can result into another breakthrough. If people want what they don’t have , they must be willing to do what they haven’t done yet. Essentially the pieces that have to be broken is from the wall that keeps us from seeing our destine selves .So hand me a hammer cause I’m coming through!